Remember, dogs do not speak English, therefore you must SHOW your dog
what you want. Your actions speak louder than your words. All of your
body language speaks to your dog. Therefore, your ATTITUDE, FACIAL
EXPRESSION AND TONE OF VOICE communicate to your dog. You cannot
try and tell your dog that he is not doing the right thing while you
are hiding a laugh because you really think your dog's behavior is cute
or funny. Your dog will laugh right along with you. You cannot ask your
dog to obey you if you hesitate in your movements. Your dog will not
believe that you are the leader. On the other hand, you cannot bully
your dog or physically punish him and expect your dog to respect and
trust you. A good working relationship with your dog is built on trust
and leadership. This is communicated to your dog by giving commands
in a tone of voice that says, "I expect you to do this, no discussion."
Then move in a steady, yet gentle way to convey leadership.
Never re-command your dog. If your dog knows what the word means, re-commanding
him just teaches your dog that a) he does not have to listen to you;
b)he can do it when he wants and c)you are not the leader. For every
command there should be an action. Either you coax the dog into doing
what you want or the dog does it. If your dog does not know the "sit"
command, and you tell your dog, "Sit . . . Sit . . . SIT!",
then make the dog sit on the third sit, your dog will learn not to sit
until the third command. He will think that the command is "sitsitsit."
Most
people repeat commands to their dog's because they are being polite
(according to human standards) and assume that the dog did not hear
the first or second time. I can assure you that if your dog does not
respond the fist time, and does not acknowledge you, he DOES HEAR you.
He is just IGNORING you. Therefore, politeness to a dog translates into
"My owner is wimpy, wimpy, wimpy! Why should I listen?"
So,
speak clearly and in a direct manner to your dog. For every command
expect or initiate an action. Do not repeat commands. Do not hesitate
when you move. Show your dog that you are a leader, not a follower.